A little lesson for my dear friend?

you are who you are
and
you can't change that
still
if u change your way of being
you will shut down
more..... and more

a hole for your self
hidden in the ground
only earth
no peace

though there is no sound
or wound that has to heal
only your soul
that will not heal
changing yourself
but excepting yourself

don't change for them
only
if you want
.... nobody stops you
but what may the change bring
happyness?

or just.....